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Ancient Wisdom

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Matchmaking

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Ancient Wisdom

Publications

Matchmaking

Services

Events

Love Quiz

Ancient Wisdom

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Where We Work: San Francisco, Los Angeles and New York

Best Matchmaking for Bay Area Professionals

Cassindy Chao Featured In


Cassindy Chao Featured In


Cassindy Chao Featured In

Begin Your Journey

Bespoke Intention & Lasting Love

Not ready to speak directly?

Begin Your Journey

Bespoke Intention & Lasting Love

Not ready to speak directly?

What a Goldman Sachs Banker Learned About Love | Matchmaker Cassindy at GMF

Our Locations

Where We Work: San Francisco, Los Angeles and New York

Ancient Wisdom Modern Love™ provides you with our matchmaking services locally.  Whether you are in the Bay Area, Southern California, or Manhattan - our team is ready and looking forward to making exceptional connections for you.

We have a national database and network of pre-qualified, attractive and fun singles who are looking to meet the love of their life. We are also proud members of the Matchmakers Alliance, a Love MBA graduate and regularly partner and team with the top matchmakers in the United States.

Discreet and professional, Matchmakers Cassindy, Dana, and Judy take the time and care with our clients to understand their needs and search on their behalf for quality matches, With a strong success rate and a reputation for elite matchmaking, we delight in our client’s success and happiness.


Terrific Dates from the West Coast to the East Coast!

Our team shares here just a few playful, romantic, and delicious dating venues in the cities we work in and travel to often across the country.  We love and enjoy great food – so here are just a few for you.



Let’s Find You Your Partner


SAN FRANCISCO MATCHMAKING

What a Goldman Sachs Banker Learned About Love | Matchmaker Cassindy at GMF

Chat with us and Be Introduced to Matches Just For You

Our team is here to support you during the dating process – not just the introduction – we are also your allies to showcase you well, find dating venues that highlight you so that your dates can be successful and enjoyable. If you are looking for real love and ready to meet someone special, we are ready to chat with you and help you find the “One”.

FAQs

Do you serve Brooklyn and the Tri-State area?

How much does an Asian matchmaker in New York cost?

How is this different from a dating app?

Do you only work with Asian clients?

A PRIVATE NEXT STEP

A PRIVATE NEXT STEP

Still deciding?

My background is unusual — third-generation 紅娘, Goldman Sachs and J.P. Morgan, Wellesley, and 35 years of doing this. It's also what makes me good at the specific thing I do, which is connecting exceptional people. But being effective isn't enough on its own. There has to be fit, and there has to be care. If you don't feel that when we talk, I'd rather you know it early — and so would I. The first call is free, and it goes both ways.

Years of setting up Great Dates

Matchmaking Testimonials

Cassie has been a matchmaker since her college days at Wellesley. She helped me identify my now husband. He is my one true love. He understands, accepts, and celebrates me. Without her sage advice, I would not be married today.

S.C. & M.D.

Matched Couple

Married

Getting married during the pandemic was an adjustment and we made it work. Now you can add another success story to your list!

P.L. & R.S.

Matched Couple

Married

Our backgrounds were very similar, and we had a lot in common, yet we would not have met without her nudge. We fell in love the day we first met and we’ve been married ever since. Cassindy is our trusted friend for life!

K.S. & B.N.

Matched Couple

Married

  • Cassie has been a matchmaker since her college days at Wellesley. She helped me identify my now husband. He is my one true love. He understands, accepts, and celebrates me. Without her sage advice, I would not be married today.

    S.C. & M.D.

    Matched Couple

    Married

  • Getting married during the pandemic was an adjustment and we made it work. Now you can add another success story to your list!

    P.L. & R.S.

    Matched Couple

    Married

  • Our backgrounds were very similar, and we had a lot in common, yet we would not have met without her nudge. We fell in love the day we first met and we’ve been married ever since. Cassindy is our trusted friend for life!

    K.S. & B.N.

    Matched Couple

    Married

Featured In

NBC News Daily — Oct 2025
Everybody needs to have a dating portfolio

NBC News Daily — Oct 2025 Everybody needs to have a dating portfolio

Business Insider — How a Goldman Sachs Banker Became One of America’s Top Asian Matchmakers

NEWSNATION — Feb 2026 — We need to be open to meeting someone special

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Years of setting up Great Dates

Years of setting up Great Dates

40+

Events & Gatherings

Events & Gatherings

Events & Gatherings

60+

Happily Ever Afters

Happily Ever Afters

Happily Ever Afters

Our Services

Luxury Matchmaking Services

Luxury Matchmaking Services

Signature Service

Date Concierge

Get dating strategies and solutions to help improve your success. Ideal for post-divorce or difficult break-up situations, and unsuccessful dating patterns.

Personalised Strategy Sessions

Dating Profile Refinement

Ongoing Coaching & Support

Premier Service

VIP Matchmaking

Our premier service offers quality bespoke introductions. In-depth and personalized process requires our dedication and resources on behalf of our clients.

Curated Bespoke Introductions

Curated Bespoke Introductions

Dedicated Matchmaker Relationship

Dedicated Matchmaker Relationship

Comprehensive Compatibility Review

Comprehensive Compatibility Review

Begin your journey to a meaningful and lasting connection

Begin your journey to a meaningful and lasting connection

A PRIVATE NEXT STEP

A PRIVATE NEXT STEP

Ready to make room for someone remarkable?

Ready to make room for someone remarkable?

We help our clients find extraordinary matches and often move beyond old expectations, stereotypes, habits and blockers and make sure they are ready for their last (and best) relationship.

We help our clients find extraordinary matches and often move beyond old expectations, stereotypes, habits and blockers and make sure they are ready for their last (and best) relationship.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love ("Service"). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love ("Service"). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love (“Service”). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love (“Service”). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.