Asian Matchmaker | Professional Matchmaking Services
Looking for a great relationship?
Finding the right partner should match your standards.
We are professional matchmakers making personal introductions that lead to love, marriage, and a fulfilling partnership.
Serving the San Francisco Bay Area, Greater Los Angeles, and New York - Led by Cassindy Chao, matchmaker and former Goldman Sachs and JP Morgan investment banker turned professional matchmaker.
Let’s get you out on some great dates!
Matchmaking Testimonials
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Our backgrounds were very similar, and we had lot in common, yet we would not have met without her nudge. We fell in love the day we first met and we’ve been married ever since. Cassindy is our trusted friend for life!
KS & BN
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Getting married during pandemic was an adjustment and we made it work. Now you can add another success story to your list!
PL & RS
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Cassie has been a matchmaker since her college days at Wellesley. She helped me identify my now husband. He is my one true love. He understands, accepts, and celebrates me. Without her sage advice, I would not be married today.
SC & MD
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Thank you again for your outstanding presentation at the Harvard Club yesterday. It was a pleasure to meet you and get some deep insights on how to navigate the contemporary dating scene. Your event was easily the most fun/ engaging event I've been to at the Club in a year!
V.G. 4/6/2025
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Hi Cassindy, thank you for leading the inspiring breakout session with Ascend today! I appreciate the tips you shared on making powerful impact statements.
Lina L 3/26/2025
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Cassindy helped us to run a terrific program for bringing local business leaders together in Los Angeles Little Tokyo and had the audience building new and meaningful connections. She cares about community building.
Kevin C. 3/1/2025
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Cassindy has been a matchmaker since her college days at Wellesley. She helped me identify my now husband. He is my one true love. He understands, accepts, and celebrates me. Without her sage advice, I would not be married today.
S.C. & M.D.
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Our backgrounds were very similar, and we had lot in common, yet we would not have met without her nudge. We fell in love the day we first met and we’ve been married ever since. Cassindy is our trusted friend for life!
K.S. & B.N.
Featured In
NBC News Daily —Oct 2025 Everybody needs to have a dating portfolio
Business Insider — How a Goldman Sachs Banker Became One of America's Top Asian Matchmakers
NEWSNATION - Feb 2026 — We need to be open to meeting someone special - It impacts what you attract.
Meet Cassindy Chao - Your Asian Matchmaker
AWM Love isn't your grandmother's matchmaker. We're not here to arrange marriages, match families, or find you a merely "suitable" prospect. We're here to find you the one — a deep, lasting connection where both people genuinely thrive.
I'm Cassindy Chao — Wellesley alumna, former Goldman Sachs and JP Morgan Securities investment banker, married mother of three, and professional Asian matchmaker with 35 years of experience connecting exceptional people. I've been doing this since my college days — long before it was my business.
Our clients are UHNW individuals and ambitious, educated professionals who are serious about finding the right partner — not just the next date. Our asian matchmaking process starts where it should: with a deep conversation about you, your life, and exactly who you'd love to meet.
Speaking & Community Volunteer - A sought-after speaker, I have presented at the Harvard Club of New York City, delivered keynotes for Robert Half, and spoken at Ascend Global Leaders, the National Association of Asian American Professionals, and the Marshall Fellowship. I am also the author of Ancient Wisdom Modern Love: Chinese Wisdom for Dating Success.
Community Leadership - Deeply embedded in the Asian-American community, Cassindy serves as Co-President of the Wellesley College Asian Alumnae globally, is a graduate of theGoldman Sachs 10,000 Small Businesses National Cohort, serves on the Associate Board of the New York Asian Film Festival, and co-leads the Business Leadership Council for Asian Health Services.
Let’s Get You Out on Great Dates
CASSINDY FEATURED IN
Luxury Matchmaking Services
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Date Concierge
Get dating strategies and solutions to help improve your success. Ideal for post-divorce or difficult break-up situations, and unsuccessful dating patterns.
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VIP Matchmaking
Our premier service offers quality bespoke introductions. In-depth and personalized process requires our dedication and resources on behalf of our clients.
FEATURED EVENTS & TALKS
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![Event poster for Autumn Affair, a curated matchmaking soirée at Palette Tea House in San Francisco, scheduled for November 22 from 5:30 PM to 7:30 PM, with a red 'Sold Out' stamp over the image of a couple wine tasting.]()
AUTUMN AFFAIR
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![Poster promoting a social event with three speakers: Kimmy Wu, Cassidy Chao, and Andrew Fung, with the question 'Why is everybody single?' and a note that it is not a speed-dating event, encouraging curiosity and connection.]()
Why IS Everybody Single?
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Love Potion #9 Halloween Mixer
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LA Cocktail Mixer
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LA Business Mixer
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Date Night
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NYC Rooftop Cocktail Mixer
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Ivy Happy Hour:
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![Matchmaker Cassindy is also a Mahjong Teacher - with MIT - Invitation to Mahjong game and dinner on June 7, 2026, at 3:00 PM for Mahjong and 5:30 PM for dinner, with a bright green background and scattered Mahjong tiles around the edges.]()
MAHJONG
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![Matchmaker Cassindy Hosts - Two women talking at a Mahjong event supporting Asian health services, with a banner behind them mentioning love, hosting, Mahjong, and supporting Asian patients.]()
SHANGHAI MAHJONG
Relationship Advice
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![AWM Love - Two young women in white t-shirts and denim overalls laughing and chatting outdoors under a tree.]()
9 Things to Never Do in the First Month of Dating: A Guide
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![Matchmaker Cassindy Shows A young man is smiling while handing a sandwich to a woman who is seated and reacting with surprise or joy. They are outside near a glass building.]()
Top 9 Signs of Chemistry on a First Date
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![AWM Matchmaker Cassindy with Two Elders In Love Two elderly men smiling and standing together outdoors in front of greenery, with one man's arm around the other's shoulder.]()
Checklist of Love: What to Look for in a Partner
Let’s Find your Match Today!
We help our clients find extraordinary matches and often move beyond old expectations, stereotypes, habits and blockers and make sure they are ready for their last (and best) relationship.