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Ancient Wisdom

THE BOOK

Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love

Chinese Wisdom for Dating Success—now in its second edition, with more lessons and a bonus section of secret family recipes.

Cassindy Chao Featured In


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THE BOOK

Chinese wisdom for dating success.

I didn’t set out to write a dating book. I set out to share what I’d learned—from my grandmother, my mother, and 35 years of helping accomplished people find love—in a way that made sense for the world we live in today. At the heart of Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love are chengyu: classical Chinese sayings that offer surprisingly powerful guidance for modern relationships.

I didn’t set out to write a dating book. I set out to share what I’d learned—from my grandmother, my mother, and 35 years of helping accomplished people find love—in a way that made sense for the world we live in today. At the heart of Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love are chengyu: classical Chinese sayings that offer surprisingly powerful guidance for modern relationships.

Goldman Sachs & J.P. Morgan

Author & angel investor

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Meet matchmaker Cassindy.

A second-generation Chinese-American, third-generation matchmaker, and former Goldman Sachs and J.P. Morgan investment banker, Cassindy blends tradition and modernity in her work. She resides in the Bay Area with her husband and three children.

A second-generation Chinese-American, third-generation matchmaker, and former Goldman Sachs and J.P. Morgan investment banker, Cassindy blends tradition and modernity in her work. She resides in the Bay Area with her husband and three children.

Third-generation Chinese 紅娘

Founder of Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love

Author, matchmaker, and relationship strategist

Cassindy Chao speaking at an event
Cassindy Chao speaking at an event

WHAT THIS BOOK COVERS

Wisdom for modern love.

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Destined Connection

The ancient Chinese concept of 緣分 (yuánfèn)—destined connection—and how to cultivate it in modern life.

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Destined Connection

The ancient Chinese concept of 緣分 (yuánfèn)—destined connection—and how to cultivate it in modern life.

02

High-Achiever Dating

Why high-achieving professionals struggle with dating and how to break the cycle.

02

High-Achiever Dating

Why high-achieving professionals struggle with dating and how to break the cycle.

03

Strategic Partnership

How to apply strategic thinking to your search for a lasting partner.

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Strategic Partnership

How to apply strategic thinking to your search for a lasting partner.

04

Family & Heritage

The role of family, culture, and heritage in modern relationships.

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Family & Heritage

The role of family, culture, and heritage in modern relationships.

05

Three Generations of Wisdom

Practical guidance drawn from three generations of 紅娘 matchmaking.

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Three Generations of Wisdom

Practical guidance drawn from three generations of 紅娘 matchmaking.

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Secret Family Recipes

A second-edition exclusive: recipes passed down through Cassindy’s family.

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Secret Family Recipes

A second-edition exclusive: recipes passed down through Cassindy’s family.

Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love

Chinese Wisdom for Dating Success—now in its second edition, with shared experiences, stories, and bonus family recipes.

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You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love ("Service"). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love (“Service”). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love (“Service”). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.