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Asian Matchmaker in Denver

Matchmaking for Denver & Boulder's Professionals and Founders

Cassindy Chao Featured In


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Begin Your Journey

Bespoke Intention & Lasting Love

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Begin Your Journey

Bespoke Intention & Lasting Love

Not ready to speak directly?

What a Goldman Sachs Banker Learned About Love | Matchmaker Cassindy at GMF

AWM Love brings personal, thoughtful Asian matchmaking to Denver and the Front Range — Cherry Creek, Washington Park, LoDo, and out to Boulder and Golden. Curated introductions for founders, physicians, and executives who came here for the life and would like someone to share it with. My clients come from every background, and some of the best matches I’ve made have been across cultures.

My Tie To Denver

My husband’s family is in Colorado — a whole network of cousins in Golden and Boulder — and we go out regularly for family reunions. It’s one of the places our family gathers, which means I’ve come to know the Front Range the way you only do when you’re visiting people rather than a city: the drive up to Boulder, the long table, everyone’s kids getting taller between visits. When I first started training as a matchmaker, I was trained (along with 16 others) in Cherry Creek by a venerable matchmaker in the business. I have worked with busy Air Force professionals in Colorado Springs as well.

I mention it because it’s the honest version of my connection here. I’m not going to tell you I built a practice in Denver over twenty years. I will tell you that this is a place my family returns to, that I understand why people move here, and that a good number of the clients I match on the coasts are quietly thinking about doing the same.

Credentials

I’m a third-generation Chinese matchmaker (紅娘) and a former Goldman Sachs and JP Morgan investment banker. I’ve been featured in Business Insider, NBC News Daily, and ABC News. I bring both the ancient wisdom of the 紅娘 tradition and a very modern understanding of the lives my clients actually lead.

Who I Work With In Denver

It All Starts With Learning About You and….Who You’d Love to Meet.

My Denver clients are founders and tech professionals — many transplanted from the Bay Area or New York — physicians, attorneys, energy and aerospace executives, and people building companies in a city that has grown up fast around them. They tend to be outdoors-oriented, deliberately less status-driven than their coastal counterparts, and looking for a partner who wants the same balance they moved here to find.

Not all of my clients are Asian. Several are people whose lives already cross cultures, and who want a partner who understands that. What everyone on my list has in common isn’t background — it’s seriousness.

Why Dating Here Is Harder Than It Should Be

The Asian-American professional community here is smaller. It’s real and growing, but it isn’t the Bay Area or New York. If you’re looking for someone who shares your background, the local pool alone may not be enough — which is precisely where a national network matters.

Everyone is active, and activity substitutes for intimacy. Ski weekends, trail runs, climbing gyms, a solid group of friends. It’s a genuinely full life, which makes it easy to go years without noticing the part that’s missing.

Transplant cities have shallow roots. A lot of people here arrived recently and may leave again. Building something lasting takes more intention when everyone’s plans are provisional.

The skills that made you successful don’t help here. You’re driven and decisive and you built something real. A partnership runs on patience and emotional availability instead, and there’s no framework for that in a founder’s toolkit.


SAN FRANCISCO MATCHMAKING

What a Goldman Sachs Banker Learned About Love | Matchmaker Cassindy at GMF

Client Success Story

We had a terrific Denver gentleman client. He came to us through a family office connection and he was sincere, philanthropic but also a touch shy when dating. My team thought he was wonderful and loved that bashfulness. He is a 4th generation Coloradan and needed to date discreetly. We went through a series of dates - a clinical nurse practitioner, a product manager who loved the outdoors, even a former model who had left the rat race of New York to come back to her own roots. The successful match - they were both winners in the game of love - was a glass artist who had left her own accounting career to go into the arts. They bonded over a shared love of labradors! Who knew that their dogs would bring them together.

Two people exploring a Colorado mountain landscape

FAQs

Do you serve Boulder and the Front Range?

Are there enough Asian-American singles in Denver for this to work?

I moved here from the coasts. Has dating actually changed?

How is this different from a dating app?

How much does an Asian matchmaker in Denver cost?

I'm not Asian. Would I be a fit for your practice?

A PRIVATE NEXT STEP

A PRIVATE NEXT STEP

Still deciding?

My background is unusual — third-generation 紅娘, Goldman Sachs and J.P. Morgan, Wellesley, and 35 years of doing this. It's also what makes me good at the specific thing I do, which is connecting exceptional people. But being effective isn't enough on its own. There has to be fit, and there has to be care. If you don't feel that when we talk, I'd rather you know it early — and so would I. The first call is free, and it goes both ways.

Years of setting up Great Dates

Matchmaking Testimonials

Cassie has been a matchmaker since her college days at Wellesley. She helped me identify my now husband. He is my one true love. He understands, accepts, and celebrates me. Without her sage advice, I would not be married today.

S.C. & M.D.

Matched Couple

Married

Getting married during the pandemic was an adjustment and we made it work. Now you can add another success story to your list!

P.L. & R.S.

Matched Couple

Married

Our backgrounds were very similar, and we had a lot in common, yet we would not have met without her nudge. We fell in love the day we first met and we’ve been married ever since. Cassindy is our trusted friend for life!

K.S. & B.N.

Matched Couple

Married

  • Cassie has been a matchmaker since her college days at Wellesley. She helped me identify my now husband. He is my one true love. He understands, accepts, and celebrates me. Without her sage advice, I would not be married today.

    S.C. & M.D.

    Matched Couple

    Married

  • Getting married during the pandemic was an adjustment and we made it work. Now you can add another success story to your list!

    P.L. & R.S.

    Matched Couple

    Married

  • Our backgrounds were very similar, and we had a lot in common, yet we would not have met without her nudge. We fell in love the day we first met and we’ve been married ever since. Cassindy is our trusted friend for life!

    K.S. & B.N.

    Matched Couple

    Married

Featured In

NBC News Daily — Oct 2025
Everybody needs to have a dating portfolio

NBC News Daily — Oct 2025 Everybody needs to have a dating portfolio

Business Insider — How a Goldman Sachs Banker Became One of America’s Top Asian Matchmakers

NEWSNATION — Feb 2026 — We need to be open to meeting someone special

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Years of setting up Great Dates

Years of setting up Great Dates

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Events & Gatherings

Events & Gatherings

Events & Gatherings

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Happily Ever Afters

Happily Ever Afters

Happily Ever Afters

Our Services

Luxury Matchmaking Services

Luxury Matchmaking Services

Signature Service

Date Concierge

Get dating strategies and solutions to help improve your success. Ideal for post-divorce or difficult break-up situations, and unsuccessful dating patterns.

Personalised Strategy Sessions

Dating Profile Refinement

Ongoing Coaching & Support

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VIP Matchmaking

Our premier service offers quality bespoke introductions. In-depth and personalized process requires our dedication and resources on behalf of our clients.

Curated Bespoke Introductions

Curated Bespoke Introductions

Dedicated Matchmaker Relationship

Dedicated Matchmaker Relationship

Comprehensive Compatibility Review

Comprehensive Compatibility Review

Begin your journey to a meaningful and lasting connection

Begin your journey to a meaningful and lasting connection

A PRIVATE NEXT STEP

A PRIVATE NEXT STEP

Ready to make room for someone remarkable?

Ready to make room for someone remarkable?

We help our clients find extraordinary matches and often move beyond old expectations, stereotypes, habits and blockers and make sure they are ready for their last (and best) relationship.

We help our clients find extraordinary matches and often move beyond old expectations, stereotypes, habits and blockers and make sure they are ready for their last (and best) relationship.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love ("Service"). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love ("Service"). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love (“Service”). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love (“Service”). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.