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Asian Matchmaker in Philadelphia

Matchmaking for Philadelphia's Physicians, Attorneys & Academics

Cassindy Chao Featured In


Cassindy Chao Featured In


Cassindy Chao Featured In

Begin Your Journey

Bespoke Intention & Lasting Love

Not ready to speak directly?

Begin Your Journey

Bespoke Intention & Lasting Love

Not ready to speak directly?

What a Goldman Sachs Banker Learned About Love | Matchmaker Cassindy at GMF

AWM Love brings personal, thoughtful Asian matchmaking to Philadelphia’s accomplished singles — from Center City and Rittenhouse to University City, and out along the Main Line to Bryn Mawr, Villanova and Wayne. Private, curated introductions for physicians, attorneys and academics who want a real partnership. My clients come from every background, and many of my matches are cross-cultural.

My Tie To Philadelphia

Philadelphia reaches me through the Ivy+ world. I’ve spoken at the Penn Club, and the alumni circles I’ve spent my life inside — Wellesley, the Seven Sisters, the Ivy+ networks that connect Bryn Mawr and Penn and everything around them — run straight through this city. As co-President of one of Wellesley’s largest alumnae organizations, those networks aren’t abstract to me. They’re how I’ve met a great many of the people I match.

I have ran matchmaking events and talks at the Penn Club. I’m a member of the Penn Club of New York. My sister-in-law lives in Philly and I love visiting her to see my darling niece.

Credentials

I’m a third-generation Chinese matchmaker (紅娘) and a former Goldman Sachs and JP Morgan investment banker. I’ve been featured in Business Insider, NBC News Daily, and ABC News. I bring both the ancient wisdom of the 紅娘 tradition and a very modern understanding of the lives my clients actually lead.

Who I Work With In Philadelphia

It All Starts With Learning About You and….Who You’d Love to Meet.

My Philadelphia clients are physicians and surgeons at Penn, Jefferson and CHOP, researchers and faculty, attorneys at the Center City firms, pharmaceutical and biotech executives, and founders. Many are Penn, Wharton or Drexel alumni. A large share are first- or second-generation, deep into demanding training pipelines, and acutely aware that the years are passing while the work continues.

Not all of my clients are Asian. The academic and medical worlds here are international by nature, and a meaningful share of my Philadelphia clients are people whose lives already cross cultures and who want a partner who understands that.

Why Dating Here Is Harder Than It Should Be

Medical training consumes the years that would otherwise build a personal life. Residency, fellowship, attending. By the time the schedule loosens, the friends who would have introduced you to someone have all paired off and moved to the suburbs.

The academic world is small and self-contained. Your department, your lab, your hospital. Dating within it carries professional complications, and the alternative is starting from zero outside it.

Philadelphia keeps its circles close. This is a city of long-standing networks — people who went to school together, whose families know each other. Breaking into that as a professional transplant is genuinely hard.

Center City and the Main Line barely overlap. Two different social worlds, twenty miles apart, with less traffic between them than you’d expect. Where you live narrows who you meet more than it should.

Let’s Find You Your Partner


SAN FRANCISCO MATCHMAKING

What a Goldman Sachs Banker Learned About Love | Matchmaker Cassindy at GMF

Client Success Story

One of my favorite clients was a doctor from Philadelphia. He was incredibly articulate, well-educated and….picky. He had almost impossibly high standards and had a legacy to live up to. He was a bit of a curator - always seeking someone next. But what helped make it ultimately work was how open-minded he was about trying various ways to meet people. Whenever we had suggestions, what pictures were better, what phrasing sounded better - he readily agreed. And taking the time to slow things down and really meet his dates. His match was a wonderful art historian and from what we know she met with the approval of his Mom too.

Philadelphia’s historic center on an autumn afternoon

FAQs

Do you serve the Main Line and the suburbs?

Do you work with people connected to Penn and the hospitals?

I'm in residency and I have almost no free time. Should I even start?

How is this different from a dating app?

How much does an Asian matchmaker in Philadelphia cost?

I'm not Asian. Would I be a fit for your practice?

A PRIVATE NEXT STEP

A PRIVATE NEXT STEP

Still deciding?

My background is unusual — third-generation 紅娘, Goldman Sachs and J.P. Morgan, Wellesley, and 35 years of doing this. It's also what makes me good at the specific thing I do, which is connecting exceptional people. But being effective isn't enough on its own. There has to be fit, and there has to be care. If you don't feel that when we talk, I'd rather you know it early — and so would I. The first call is free, and it goes both ways.

Years of setting up Great Dates

Matchmaking Testimonials

“She highlights the importance of understanding our own values and the essence of showing up as our authentic selves on dates…”

D.C.

Matched Couple

Married

“...insightful wisdom which helps open your perspective on relationships and life, and appreciate others for who and where they are in their life stage.”

J.Y.

Matched Couple

Married

"Cassindy has been a matchmaker since her college days at Wellesley. She helped me identify my now husband. He is my one true love. He understands, accepts, and celebrates me. Without her sage advice, I would not be married today.”

S.C. & M.D.

Matched Couple

Married

  • “She highlights the importance of understanding our own values and the essence of showing up as our authentic selves on dates…”

    D.C.

    Matched Couple

    Married

  • “...insightful wisdom which helps open your perspective on relationships and life, and appreciate others for who and where they are in their life stage.”

    J.Y.

    Matched Couple

    Married

  • "Cassindy has been a matchmaker since her college days at Wellesley. She helped me identify my now husband. He is my one true love. He understands, accepts, and celebrates me. Without her sage advice, I would not be married today.”

    S.C. & M.D.

    Matched Couple

    Married

Featured In

NBC News Daily — Oct 2025
Everybody needs to have a dating portfolio

NBC News Daily — Oct 2025 Everybody needs to have a dating portfolio

Business Insider — How a Goldman Sachs Banker Became One of America’s Top Asian Matchmakers

NEWSNATION — Feb 2026 — We need to be open to meeting someone special

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Years of setting up Great Dates

Years of setting up Great Dates

40+

Events & Gatherings

Events & Gatherings

Events & Gatherings

60+

Happily Ever Afters

Happily Ever Afters

Happily Ever Afters

Our Services

Luxury Matchmaking Services

Luxury Matchmaking Services

Signature Service

Date Concierge

Get dating strategies and solutions to help improve your success. Ideal for post-divorce or difficult break-up situations, and unsuccessful dating patterns.

Personalised Strategy Sessions

Dating Profile Refinement

Ongoing Coaching & Support

Premier Service

VIP Matchmaking

Our premier service offers quality bespoke introductions. In-depth and personalized process requires our dedication and resources on behalf of our clients.

Curated Bespoke Introductions

Curated Bespoke Introductions

Dedicated Matchmaker Relationship

Dedicated Matchmaker Relationship

Comprehensive Compatibility Review

Comprehensive Compatibility Review

Begin your journey to a meaningful and lasting connection

Begin your journey to a meaningful and lasting connection

A PRIVATE NEXT STEP

A PRIVATE NEXT STEP

Ready to make room for someone remarkable?

Ready to make room for someone remarkable?

We help our clients find extraordinary matches and often move beyond old expectations, stereotypes, habits and blockers and make sure they are ready for their last (and best) relationship.

We help our clients find extraordinary matches and often move beyond old expectations, stereotypes, habits and blockers and make sure they are ready for their last (and best) relationship.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love ("Service"). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love ("Service"). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love (“Service”). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love (“Service”). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.