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Summer is just starting and we have a lot planned! We will add new events that we are co-hosting or attending.

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Poster for the 25th Anniversary VIP Red Carpet Gala of the New York Asian Film Festival.

Most of us were taught to lead with what's impressive: the intelligence, the degree, the title, the work.

📍 Los Altos Community Center

Norcal California

Most of us were taught to lead with what's impressive: the intelligence, the degree, the title, the work. It's a reasonable instinct. It's also not how people decide they want to keep talking to you. On October 6, the MIT Club of Northern California welcomes Cassindy Chao, founder of the bespoke matchmaking firm Ancient Wisdom Modern Love and author of the book of the same name, for a session on why smart people can struggle with first impressions, and how a shift in mindset and approach changes that. Before matchmaking, Cassindy spent years in investment banking at Goldman Sachs and J.P. Morgan. She has appeared on NBC News Daily and in Business Insider, and has spoken at the Harvard Club of New York and Oracle. For early-career alumni, this is a look at what the person across the table actually registers, which is also what a hiring manager remembers three candidates later. For mid-career and senior professionals, it's the same skill whether the goal is a client, a co-founder, or a board seat. The evening includes dinner, a presentation with one-on-one exercises, and time to put it into practice with fellow MITCNC members and friends. 📅 Tuesday, October 6 | 6:00–9:00 PM PT 📍 Los Altos Community Center 👉Register at https://lnkd.in/gWKC63qz

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Most of us were taught to lead with what's impressive: the intelligence, the degree, the title, the work.

📍 Los Altos Community Center

San Francisco / Bay Area, California

California

New York City / Manhattan, New York

Most of us were taught to lead with what's impressive: the intelligence, the degree, the title, the work. It's a reasonable instinct. It's also not how people decide they want to keep talking to you. On October 6, the MIT Club of Northern California welcomes Cassindy Chao, founder of the bespoke matchmaking firm Ancient Wisdom Modern Love and author of the book of the same name, for a session on why smart people can struggle with first impressions, and how a shift in mindset and approach changes that. Before matchmaking, Cassindy spent years in investment banking at Goldman Sachs and J.P. Morgan. She has appeared on NBC News Daily and in Business Insider, and has spoken at the Harvard Club of New York and Oracle. For early-career alumni, this is a look at what the person across the table actually registers, which is also what a hiring manager remembers three candidates later. For mid-career and senior professionals, it's the same skill whether the goal is a client, a co-founder, or a board seat. The evening includes dinner, a presentation with one-on-one exercises, and time to put it into practice with fellow MITCNC members and friends. 📅 Tuesday, October 6 | 6:00–9:00 PM PT 📍 Los Altos Community Center 👉Register at https://lnkd.in/gWKC63qz

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Dumpling and Mahjong

Piedmont, CA

Come join us for a fun afternoon of dumpling making and mingling while playing Mahjong! Email us at hello@awmlove.com to be added to our waitlist

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Dating Mixer by Cassindy Chao x Coffee Meets Bagel

Sorry Not Sorry LA

Los Angeles, California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Summer Dating Social

Sakura Bistro SF

San Francisco / Bay Area, California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Date Night: Matchmaker Cassindy x Asian Boss Girl Janet Wang

Sorry Not Sorry LA

Los Angeles, California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Entrepreneur Huddle: February Meet-Up

Intercrew

Los Angeles, California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Social Mixer: Ambition Meets Connection

Intercrew LA

Los Angeles, California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Poster for the 25th Anniversary VIP Red Carpet Gala of the New York Asian Film Festival.

New York Asian Film Festival VIP Red Carpet Gala

David Rubenstein Atrium at Lincoln Center

New York City / Manhattan, New York

Join the 25th Anniversary New York Asian Film Festival celebration. AWM Love is proud to support the festival’s partner spotlight series with Fundstrat and Cadence Foundation.

Invitation to a Mahjong and dinner event with Mahjong tiles on a green table.

Mahjong and Dinner

Koi Palace Contempo, Cupertino

Cupertino California

Join MIT alumni and Ivy alumni for an afternoon of Mahjong followed by a multi-course Chinese dinner. Beginers are welcome, with introductions and roaming mentors available throughout the games.

Coming soon: Autumn Affair

Autumn Affair

SF Palette Tea House

San Francisco / Bay Area, California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Coming soon: Why Is Everybody Single?

Why Is Everybody Single?

NYC

New York City / Manhattan, New York

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Coming soon: Love Potion #9 Halloween Mixer

Love Potion #9 Halloween Mixer

Viridian Bar Oakland

California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Coming soon: NYC Matchmaker Mixer

NYC Matchmaker Mixer

Date Fallback Message

Location to be announced

Coming soon. Visit our events page for announcements, dates, and RSVP details.

Coming soon: LA Cocktail Mixer

LA Cocktail Mixer

Studio City LA

Los Angeles, California

Coming soon. Visit our events page for announcements, dates, and RSVP details.

Coming soon: LA Business Mixer

LA Business Mixer

Date Fallback Message

Location to be announced

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Coming soon: NYC Rooftop Cocktail Mixer

Summer AAPI Happy Hour Mixer

MADE Hotel NYC

New York City / Manhattan, New York

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Coming soon: Ivy Happy Hour

Happy Hour: Matchmaker Cassindy

Thirty Three HK

Hong Kong

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Dumpling and Mahjong

-

Piedmont, California

Summary: Come join us for a fun afternoon of dumpling making and mingling while playing Mahjong!

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Most of us were taught to lead with what's impressive: the intelligence, the degree, the title, the work.

📍 Los Altos Community Center

San Francisco / Bay Area, California

California

New York City / Manhattan, New York

Most of us were taught to lead with what's impressive: the intelligence, the degree, the title, the work. It's a reasonable instinct. It's also not how people decide they want to keep talking to you. On October 6, the MIT Club of Northern California welcomes Cassindy Chao, founder of the bespoke matchmaking firm Ancient Wisdom Modern Love and author of the book of the same name, for a session on why smart people can struggle with first impressions, and how a shift in mindset and approach changes that. Before matchmaking, Cassindy spent years in investment banking at Goldman Sachs and J.P. Morgan. She has appeared on NBC News Daily and in Business Insider, and has spoken at the Harvard Club of New York and Oracle. For early-career alumni, this is a look at what the person across the table actually registers, which is also what a hiring manager remembers three candidates later. For mid-career and senior professionals, it's the same skill whether the goal is a client, a co-founder, or a board seat. The evening includes dinner, a presentation with one-on-one exercises, and time to put it into practice with fellow MITCNC members and friends. 📅 Tuesday, October 6 | 6:00–9:00 PM PT 📍 Los Altos Community Center 👉Register at https://lnkd.in/gWKC63qz

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Dumpling and Mahjong

Piedmont, CA

Come join us for a fun afternoon of dumpling making and mingling while playing Mahjong! Email us at hello@awmlove.com to be added to our waitlist

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Dating Mixer by Cassindy Chao x Coffee Meets Bagel

Sorry Not Sorry LA

Los Angeles, California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Summer Dating Social

Sakura Bistro SF

San Francisco / Bay Area, California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Date Night: Matchmaker Cassindy x Asian Boss Girl Janet Wang

Sorry Not Sorry LA

Los Angeles, California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Entrepreneur Huddle: February Meet-Up

Intercrew

Los Angeles, California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Social Mixer: Ambition Meets Connection

Intercrew LA

Los Angeles, California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Poster for the 25th Anniversary VIP Red Carpet Gala of the New York Asian Film Festival.

New York Asian Film Festival VIP Red Carpet Gala

David Rubenstein Atrium at Lincoln Center

New York City / Manhattan, New York

Join the 25th Anniversary New York Asian Film Festival celebration. AWM Love is proud to support the festival’s partner spotlight series with Fundstrat and Cadence Foundation.

Invitation to a Mahjong and dinner event with Mahjong tiles on a green table.

Mahjong and Dinner

Koi Palace Contempo, Cupertino

Cupertino California

Join MIT alumni and Ivy alumni for an afternoon of Mahjong followed by a multi-course Chinese dinner. Beginers are welcome, with introductions and roaming mentors available throughout the games.

Coming soon: Autumn Affair

Autumn Affair

SF Palette Tea House

San Francisco / Bay Area, California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Coming soon: Why Is Everybody Single?

Why Is Everybody Single?

NYC

New York City / Manhattan, New York

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Coming soon: Love Potion #9 Halloween Mixer

Love Potion #9 Halloween Mixer

Viridian Bar Oakland

California

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Coming soon: NYC Matchmaker Mixer

NYC Matchmaker Mixer

Date Fallback Message

Location to be announced

Coming soon. Visit our events page for announcements, dates, and RSVP details.

Coming soon: LA Cocktail Mixer

LA Cocktail Mixer

Studio City LA

Los Angeles, California

Coming soon. Visit our events page for announcements, dates, and RSVP details.

Coming soon: LA Business Mixer

LA Business Mixer

Date Fallback Message

Location to be announced

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Coming soon: NYC Rooftop Cocktail Mixer

Summer AAPI Happy Hour Mixer

MADE Hotel NYC

New York City / Manhattan, New York

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Coming soon: Ivy Happy Hour

Happy Hour: Matchmaker Cassindy

Thirty Three HK

Hong Kong

This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Matchmaker Cassindy Mahjong and Dumpling

Dumpling and Mahjong

-

Piedmont, California

Summary: Come join us for a fun afternoon of dumpling making and mingling while playing Mahjong!

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love ("Service"). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love ("Service"). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love (“Service”). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.

You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love (“Service”). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.