

Events
Summer is just starting and we have a lot planned! We will add new events that we are co-hosting or attending.
Gatherings

Most of us were taught to lead with what's impressive: the intelligence, the degree, the title, the work.
📍 Los Altos Community Center
Norcal California
Most of us were taught to lead with what's impressive: the intelligence, the degree, the title, the work. It's a reasonable instinct. It's also not how people decide they want to keep talking to you. On October 6, the MIT Club of Northern California welcomes Cassindy Chao, founder of the bespoke matchmaking firm Ancient Wisdom Modern Love and author of the book of the same name, for a session on why smart people can struggle with first impressions, and how a shift in mindset and approach changes that. Before matchmaking, Cassindy spent years in investment banking at Goldman Sachs and J.P. Morgan. She has appeared on NBC News Daily and in Business Insider, and has spoken at the Harvard Club of New York and Oracle. For early-career alumni, this is a look at what the person across the table actually registers, which is also what a hiring manager remembers three candidates later. For mid-career and senior professionals, it's the same skill whether the goal is a client, a co-founder, or a board seat. The evening includes dinner, a presentation with one-on-one exercises, and time to put it into practice with fellow MITCNC members and friends. 📅 Tuesday, October 6 | 6:00–9:00 PM PT 📍 Los Altos Community Center 👉Register at https://lnkd.in/gWKC63qz

Most of us were taught to lead with what's impressive: the intelligence, the degree, the title, the work.
📍 Los Altos Community Center
San Francisco / Bay Area, California
California
New York City / Manhattan, New York
Most of us were taught to lead with what's impressive: the intelligence, the degree, the title, the work. It's a reasonable instinct. It's also not how people decide they want to keep talking to you. On October 6, the MIT Club of Northern California welcomes Cassindy Chao, founder of the bespoke matchmaking firm Ancient Wisdom Modern Love and author of the book of the same name, for a session on why smart people can struggle with first impressions, and how a shift in mindset and approach changes that. Before matchmaking, Cassindy spent years in investment banking at Goldman Sachs and J.P. Morgan. She has appeared on NBC News Daily and in Business Insider, and has spoken at the Harvard Club of New York and Oracle. For early-career alumni, this is a look at what the person across the table actually registers, which is also what a hiring manager remembers three candidates later. For mid-career and senior professionals, it's the same skill whether the goal is a client, a co-founder, or a board seat. The evening includes dinner, a presentation with one-on-one exercises, and time to put it into practice with fellow MITCNC members and friends. 📅 Tuesday, October 6 | 6:00–9:00 PM PT 📍 Los Altos Community Center 👉Register at https://lnkd.in/gWKC63qz

Dumpling and Mahjong
Piedmont, CA
Come join us for a fun afternoon of dumpling making and mingling while playing Mahjong! Email us at hello@awmlove.com to be added to our waitlist

Dating Mixer by Cassindy Chao x Coffee Meets Bagel
Sorry Not Sorry LA
Los Angeles, California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Summer Dating Social
Sakura Bistro SF
San Francisco / Bay Area, California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Date Night: Matchmaker Cassindy x Asian Boss Girl Janet Wang
Sorry Not Sorry LA
Los Angeles, California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Entrepreneur Huddle: February Meet-Up
Intercrew
Los Angeles, California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Social Mixer: Ambition Meets Connection
Intercrew LA
Los Angeles, California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

New York Asian Film Festival VIP Red Carpet Gala
David Rubenstein Atrium at Lincoln Center
New York City / Manhattan, New York
Join the 25th Anniversary New York Asian Film Festival celebration. AWM Love is proud to support the festival’s partner spotlight series with Fundstrat and Cadence Foundation.

Mahjong and Dinner
Koi Palace Contempo, Cupertino
Cupertino California
Join MIT alumni and Ivy alumni for an afternoon of Mahjong followed by a multi-course Chinese dinner. Beginers are welcome, with introductions and roaming mentors available throughout the games.

Autumn Affair
SF Palette Tea House
San Francisco / Bay Area, California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Why Is Everybody Single?
NYC
New York City / Manhattan, New York
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Love Potion #9 Halloween Mixer
Viridian Bar Oakland
California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

NYC Matchmaker Mixer
Date Fallback Message
Location to be announced
Coming soon. Visit our events page for announcements, dates, and RSVP details.

LA Cocktail Mixer
Studio City LA
Los Angeles, California
Coming soon. Visit our events page for announcements, dates, and RSVP details.

LA Business Mixer
Date Fallback Message
Location to be announced
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Summer AAPI Happy Hour Mixer
MADE Hotel NYC
New York City / Manhattan, New York
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Happy Hour: Matchmaker Cassindy
Thirty Three HK
Hong Kong
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Dumpling and Mahjong
-
Piedmont, California
Summary: Come join us for a fun afternoon of dumpling making and mingling while playing Mahjong!

Most of us were taught to lead with what's impressive: the intelligence, the degree, the title, the work.
📍 Los Altos Community Center
San Francisco / Bay Area, California
California
New York City / Manhattan, New York
Most of us were taught to lead with what's impressive: the intelligence, the degree, the title, the work. It's a reasonable instinct. It's also not how people decide they want to keep talking to you. On October 6, the MIT Club of Northern California welcomes Cassindy Chao, founder of the bespoke matchmaking firm Ancient Wisdom Modern Love and author of the book of the same name, for a session on why smart people can struggle with first impressions, and how a shift in mindset and approach changes that. Before matchmaking, Cassindy spent years in investment banking at Goldman Sachs and J.P. Morgan. She has appeared on NBC News Daily and in Business Insider, and has spoken at the Harvard Club of New York and Oracle. For early-career alumni, this is a look at what the person across the table actually registers, which is also what a hiring manager remembers three candidates later. For mid-career and senior professionals, it's the same skill whether the goal is a client, a co-founder, or a board seat. The evening includes dinner, a presentation with one-on-one exercises, and time to put it into practice with fellow MITCNC members and friends. 📅 Tuesday, October 6 | 6:00–9:00 PM PT 📍 Los Altos Community Center 👉Register at https://lnkd.in/gWKC63qz

Dumpling and Mahjong
Piedmont, CA
Come join us for a fun afternoon of dumpling making and mingling while playing Mahjong! Email us at hello@awmlove.com to be added to our waitlist

Dating Mixer by Cassindy Chao x Coffee Meets Bagel
Sorry Not Sorry LA
Los Angeles, California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Summer Dating Social
Sakura Bistro SF
San Francisco / Bay Area, California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Date Night: Matchmaker Cassindy x Asian Boss Girl Janet Wang
Sorry Not Sorry LA
Los Angeles, California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Entrepreneur Huddle: February Meet-Up
Intercrew
Los Angeles, California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Social Mixer: Ambition Meets Connection
Intercrew LA
Los Angeles, California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

New York Asian Film Festival VIP Red Carpet Gala
David Rubenstein Atrium at Lincoln Center
New York City / Manhattan, New York
Join the 25th Anniversary New York Asian Film Festival celebration. AWM Love is proud to support the festival’s partner spotlight series with Fundstrat and Cadence Foundation.

Mahjong and Dinner
Koi Palace Contempo, Cupertino
Cupertino California
Join MIT alumni and Ivy alumni for an afternoon of Mahjong followed by a multi-course Chinese dinner. Beginers are welcome, with introductions and roaming mentors available throughout the games.

Autumn Affair
SF Palette Tea House
San Francisco / Bay Area, California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Why Is Everybody Single?
NYC
New York City / Manhattan, New York
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Love Potion #9 Halloween Mixer
Viridian Bar Oakland
California
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

NYC Matchmaker Mixer
Date Fallback Message
Location to be announced
Coming soon. Visit our events page for announcements, dates, and RSVP details.

LA Cocktail Mixer
Studio City LA
Los Angeles, California
Coming soon. Visit our events page for announcements, dates, and RSVP details.

LA Business Mixer
Date Fallback Message
Location to be announced
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Summer AAPI Happy Hour Mixer
MADE Hotel NYC
New York City / Manhattan, New York
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Happy Hour: Matchmaker Cassindy
Thirty Three HK
Hong Kong
This events have already taken place. Thanks to everyone who joined us in 2025!

Dumpling and Mahjong
-
Piedmont, California
Summary: Come join us for a fun afternoon of dumpling making and mingling while playing Mahjong!
You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love ("Service"). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.
You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love ("Service"). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.
You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love (“Service”). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.
You must be at least eighteen (18) years of age to access or use AWM Love (“Service”). By using the Service, you represent and warrant that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into this agreement.