Premier Asian
Matchmaker & Dating
Concierge

Our team is ready to work with you to find your partner in love and life. Wherever you are - SF Bay Area, Metro LA, NYC Tri State - We are ready to curate your dating journey and help our clients level-up in attracting quality matches.

WHO WE ARE

Ancient Wisdom Modern Love

Ancient Wisdom Modern Love (AWML) is not your grandmother’s matchmaker. We aren’t here to “arrange” a marriage or match two families or find you a merely “suitable” prospect. Our goal is your goal – to find you a deep connection leading to a vibrant relationship where both people thrive - to find “the One” for you.

Matchmaker Cassindy comes from a family of Matchmakers. She is a former Goldman Sachs and JP Morgan Equities research analyst and happily married Mother of 3 but caught the matchmaking bug in college - matching dozens of couples at the “Wellesley College Asian Association Blind Date Semi-Formal”. Now, she is ready to work tirelessly on your behalf for True Love!

Three gold and silver award badges: Matchmakers Alliance Member, The Love MBA, and Amazon #1 Bestseller.
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In The Press

Latest Coverage

Discover the latest insights of world of modern dating keeping you up to date with the trends.

Asian Boss Girl - Living Well with Janet

Speaker - Museum of Chinese in America

Interview - Los Angeles Dating

LATEST COVERAGE IN THE PRESS

Services

  • Date Coaching

    Get dating strategies and solutions to help improve your success. Ideal for post-divorce or difficult break-up situations, and unsuccessful dating patterns.

  • VIP Matchmaking

    Our premier service offers quality bespoke introductions. In-depth and personalized process requires our dedication and resources on behalf of our clients.

  • Cassindy introduced.

    Our backgrounds were very similar, and we had lot in common, yet we would not have met without her nudge. We fell in love the day we first met and we’ve been married ever since. Cassindy is a friend for life!

  • We Found Marriage

    Getting married during pandemic was an adjustment and we made it work. Now you can add another success story to your list!

  • Experienced Matchmaker.

    Cassie has been a matchmaker since her college days at Wellesley. She helped me identify my now husband. He is my one true love. He understands, accepts, and celebrates me. Without her sage advice, I would not be married today.

Top Markets Served

Wisdom Hub - Blog

  • Hiring a Matchmaker: Your Path to Lasting Love

  • Goldman Sachs to Matchmaking? Yes, THAT Kind of Matchmaking!

  • 9 Things to Never Do in the First Month of Dating: A Guide

  • Top 9 Signs of Chemistry on a First Date

  • Checklist of Love: What to Look for in a Partner

  • 5 Great Date Ideas in Palo Alto, CA

Chinese Wisdom for Dating Success

Book - Amazon Best Seller

For centuries, Chinese people have been distilling everything from philosophical ideas to folk wisdom to advice on relationships into short, memorable, and often humorous sayings called “chengyu”.

 This book is a love letter to my parents who emigrated from Taiwan and proudly shared their heritage with me.

These ancient phrases and their relatable wisdom that I myself heard growing up are a core part of my matchmaking practice as I advise my clients on successfully navigating dating and building relationships.

A book titled 'Ancient Wisdom Modern Love: Chinese Wisdom for Dating Success' by Cassindy Chao, placed next to a crystal award with 'Best Seller' inscribed, on a black stand.
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Let’s Find your Match Today!

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We help our clients find extraordinary matches and often move beyond old expectations, stereotypes, habits and blockers and make sure they are ready for their last (and best) relationship.

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