Asian Matchmaker in Los Angeles
Elite Matchmaking for Successful Asian Singles
Looking for the best Asian matchmaker in Los Angeles? Cassindy Chao and her team at AWM Love work with professionals across LA — from Beverly Hills to Santa Monica, Pasadena to the South Bay — creating personal introductions that lead to love, marriage, and lasting partnership.
Cassindy Chao grew up in the South Bay — Redondo Beach and Palos Verdes — the daughter of Taiwanese immigrants and a third-generation Chinese matchmaker. I’ve worked in Cerritos and Anaheim and even helped out at my parent’s business for a year.
She knows Los Angeles, its communities, and its culture from the inside and when to avoid the 405. 3rd generation matchmaker years of matchmaking experience and a background as a Goldman Sachs and JP Morgan investment banker, she brings a uniquely personal and professional touch to every introduction she makes in this city.
Are you ready to meet your match?
Who I work with in Los Angeles
It All Starts With Learning About You and….Who You’d Love to Meet.
My Los Angeles clients are professionals from Pasadena down to Costa Mesa and Irvine. They are in law, medicine, marketing as well as many in entertainment and, of course, the creative community. Many of my clients are first- or second-generation. Some of them have parents who ask them about their relationships so I understand.
Why dating in LA is harder than it should be
It’s been tough too in Los Angeles with the economy and the fires and it reinforces the importance of having a great partner.
Los Angeles has no shortage of single people. That should make this easy. It doesn't.
The city is 80 miles wide and organized around driving. Your real dating radius is far smaller than your zip code suggests. Someone in Manhattan Beach and someone in Silver Lake are theoretically an hour apart and practically living in different countries. So many people end up dating within a small bubble and that is their ecosystem.
Presentation is a profession here. I feel that there is an over reliance on presentation - it’s one of the friendliest yet loneliest places. A great profile, a great first impression, a great story — this city is full of people who can do all three and still can't sustain a relationship past month four.
And your social circle stopped growing around 32. Your friends are your colleagues. Your colleagues are in your industry. Your industry is a small town that happens to occupy a large one. It’s normal for social circles to be limited post education, yet dating at work has its challenges - so where do we meet new people?
That's the actual problem one that we regularly solve for our clients. We offer tactical solutions, matches and we want to celebrate your success when you find your partner.
Client Success Story
Recently, we were ghosted by our client and we are absolutely delighted.
His story is familiar - intelligent, hard-working attorney, age 38, who did not prioritize dating as he was building up his career. Then when it came time to date, he was a little rusty and perhaps even bashful. Aww, we just loved him so much as we knew he is ready for a true relationship but his circle was limited and with his working hours - he wasn’t going to meet his match in the wild.
We got to work
After a deep-dive about his values, his family background (emigrated from Taiwan), and his interest in someone who did not judge him, had similar interests and - very importantly also enjoyed eating. We presented 6 matches and explained our rational for each one. He chose 4 to go on first dates with. Those dates were hard to set-up given locations in LA but we avoided bad traffic hours and we found cute eateries for them to meet up in. As we iterated - he gave us his candid feedback and we found ways for him to up his game. Then the next set of dates - we presented 2 more and well, one of them worked - and he disappeared.
Well, not really - when we did catch up he shared about his upcoming plans and where they had gone away for the weekend. In his words - “She really does check all the boxes for me”.
“We met at Janet’s event and Cassindy gave me advice that day. She helped me to think about the real questions that matter - “does he see me, does he make me feel safe.” A year later, here I am with my boyfriend that I almost did not go on the 2nd date with.” C.Z.
Celebrating LA's creative community at The Lounge Booth's 4-year anniversary
Cassindy Chao on NBC News Daily - October 8, 2025.
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FAQs
Do you only work with Asian clients?
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No. I'm a third-generation Chinese matchmaker and that shapes how I work — I take family, culture, and long-term compatibility seriously. But my clients are ALL backgrounds. What they have in common is that they're serious.
Do you serve San Diego and Orange County?
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Yes. I have family and connections from La Jolla to Huntington Beach, so we span from LA down through Orange County and Irvine to San Diego. We've hosted events from Studio City to Costa Mesa and more.
How is matchmaking different from a dating app?
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Dating apps give volume but often with limited information, and sometimes there are safety issues too. We meet every person we introduce you to. I know how they handle disappointment, whether their actions match their words, and what they're actually looking for — not what their profile says.
How much does an Asian matchmaker in Los Angeles cost?
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It is going to depend on how difficult your search is, your timing and availability to date. I am mid-range for a boutique vetted approach. There are basic dating services that are cheaper and dating apps are always the lowest prices. Matchmaking will always be more expensive as it’s my time, my large database and personal outreaches on my client’s behalf.
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Cassindy introduced.
Our backgrounds were very similar, and we had lot in common, yet we would not have met without her nudge. We fell in love the day we first met and we’ve been married ever since. Cassindy is our trusted friend for life!
KS & BN
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We Found Marriage
Getting married during pandemic was an adjustment and we made it work. Now you can add another success story to your list!
PL & RS
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Experienced Matchmaker.
Cassie has been a matchmaker since her college days at Wellesley. She helped me identify my now husband. He is my one true love. He understands, accepts, and celebrates me. Without her sage advice, I would not be married today.
SC & MD
Let’s Find your Match Today!
We help our clients find extraordinary matches and often move beyond old expectations, stereotypes, habits and blockers and make sure they are ready for their last (and best) relationship.
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