Hidden Romantic Gems in Orange County for Lunch or Dinner
By Cassindy Chao | Elite Matchmaker & Founder of AWM Love
Orange County may be known for its sunshine and shoreline, but tucked between the palm trees and planned communities are restaurants that feel like secrets waiting to be shared. And for daters looking for something a little quieter, a little more personal—those hidden gems can set exactly the right tone.
Here are four off-the-beaten-path spots in OC we actually recommend to clients. Each one is intimate, intentional, and perfect for moments that deserve more than the usual scene.
1. Old Vine Kitchen & Bar – Eclectic, Elevated, and Surprisingly Low-Key
📍 2937 Bristol St. Suite A103, Costa Mesa, CA
🌐 oldvinekitchenbar.com
Tucked into The Camp in Costa Mesa, Old Vine feels like a secret European wine bar crossed with SoCal ease. The interior is warm and modern, and the patio is ideal for low-key alfresco connection.
Why we love it: It’s unpretentious but smart—perfect for creative professionals, thoughtful daters, or anyone craving connection without pretense.
Client Tip: Try the housemade Tagliatelle Bolognese or the Duck Confit Enchiladas (yes, really). Their wine pairings are smart and subtle—ask your server for a thoughtful match.
2. The Winery – Waterfront and Whisper-Worthy
📍 3131 West Coast Hwy, Newport Beach, CA
🌐 thewineryrestaurants.com
Hidden behind a sleek façade off PCH, The Winery opens up into one of the most romantic settings in Newport. Overlooking the marina, it’s candlelit, polished, and a favorite for clients ready to impress.
Why we love it: It’s a refined experience without ever feeling flashy. The water views add just enough drama for a date that matters.
Client Tip: Go for the Seared Scallops or the Bone-In Ribeye if you’re settling in for a longer dinner. Start with the Burrata and end with the Chocolate Soufflé if the date's going well (it will be).
3. Bello by Sandro Nardone – Modern Italian with Hidden Intensity
📍 1200 Bison Ave, Newport Beach, CA
🌐 bellobysandronardone.com
Bello isn’t your typical Italian spot. It’s chef-driven, experimental, and tucked into a shopping center where you’d never expect this level of culinary flair. Inside, it’s all glowing wood, sleek booths, and ambient energy.
Why we love it: It’s romantic for food lovers—people who love conversation, creativity, and discovering something new together.
Client Tip: Try the tasting menu for something more adventurous, or go à la carte with the Cacio e Pepe and any wood-fired protein. The cocktails are clean and well-balanced—ask what’s off-menu.
4. Sapphire – Global Flavor, Local Calm in Laguna Beach
📍 910 S Coast Hwy, Laguna Beach, CA
🌐 sapphirelagunabeach.com
Just off the Laguna strip, Sapphire blends global influence with coastal charm. It feels like a discovery every time—colorful, serene, and quietly stylish.
Why we love it: It’s ideal for late lunches that turn into sunset strolls. Romantic but relaxed, especially if you’re both beach people at heart.
Client Tip: The Lamb Meatballs and Pan-Roasted Salmon are consistent client favorites. Sip a glass of chilled white wine and save time for a post-lunch walk down to the sand.
Final Thought
Some of the best dates don’t happen in loud, see-and-be-seen hotspots. They happen in places where you can actually hear each other. Where the light is soft, the food is thoughtful, and the setting invites you to slow down and connect.
Orange County is full of hidden romantic gems—and when paired with the right person, they’re unforgettable.
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